The words "Gahoujin" by Dogen Zenji (1200 - 1253), the founder of the Soto school of Zen Buddhism, encapsulate the profound significance of encounters in just three characters. At first glance, it might seem like "so what?" kind of phrase, but let me share the story behind these words.
As a young monk, Dogen deeply questioned, "What is Buddha?" Despite seeking answers from numerous teachers, he was not satisfied. Driven by his quest, he embarked on a perilous journey to China, seeking wisdom through rigorous practice and wandering in search of a teacher. After two years without finding an answer, he was preparing to return home in despair when he met the eminent master Rujing. Reflecting on this encounter after returning to Japan, he said:
"I saw my teacher face to face; this is what it means to encounter someone."
These simple words encapsulate Dogen's joy of finally meeting a true teacher after a life-threatening journey and earnestly searching for one. Following this encounter, Dogen trained under Rujing and attained enlightenment.
The potential for life-changing transformation lies within each encounter. If not for meeting certain individuals at certain times, we might not be who we are today. Each of us has at least one or two such transformative encounters.
Personally, as someone who isn't naturally social, I often find meeting new people to be a challenge and something I need to overcome. Thus, the phrase "Gahoujin" resonates deeply with me.
Of course, there are both good and bad encounters. Yet, there are lessons and insights to be gained from both. Whether positive or negative, each encounter strengthens us and contributes to our personal growth.
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